Valentyna’s journey

When the war in Ukraine began, SOS Children’s Villages UK launched an immediate Emergency Appeal contributing directly to global efforts, supporting the work of SOS Children’s Villages in Ukraine and neighbouring countries in response to this crisis.

Valentyna, a devoted mother of nine children – including seven foster children – faced the daunting challenge of adjusting to a new life in SOS Children’s Village Biłgoraj, Poland, after fleeing the war in Ukraine.  

With the support of SOS Children’s Villages, the family gradually settled into their new surroundings, with the children not only excelling in school but also embracing the Polish language. 

In the early days, Valentyna grappled with depression, feeling overwhelmed by her children’s problems, and struggling to adapt to the new environment. However, she discovered solace in creative outlets, such as drawing and crafting, which helped her find peace and regain her strength. 

As the family started to engage with local events and share their rich Ukrainian heritage with their new community, they experienced a growing sense of connection and belonging. Valentyna and her children introduced their Polish friends to Ukrainian traditions, food, and culture, which not only fostered cultural exchange but also allowed them to express gratitude for the support they had received. 

“At our age, it is difficult to start everything from the beginning, but thanks to our children and the constant support of SOS Children’s Villages, we do not give up, we only go forward”
Valentyna

The assistance from SOS Children’s Villages played a vital role in their adjustment, providing a supportive environment for Valentyna and her family to heal and grow. Through this experience, she learned the importance of being present, living in the moment, and not dwelling on her children’s problems. This shift in perspective not only improved her mental health but also allowed her to realise her strength as a mother. 

In the end, Valentyna’s story is a testament to the power of resilience, the importance of community, and the crucial role organisations like SOS Children’s Villages play in supporting families during war and times of crisis.

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