Warning: The following story contains description of violence against children.
As a child, Wairegi* was a victim of childhood violence at the hands of his father. With each violent episode, he felt increasingly isolated, misunderstood, and lost. But today, thanks to the support he received, Wairegi is on a journey to rediscover himself and find relief from his trauma.
A Childhood Stolen by Violence
From as young as six years old, Wairegi was frequently subjected to his father’s violent outbursts. “He would magnify small mistakes and use a whip on me,” Wairegi recalls. The relentless mental and physical abuse shattered his self-esteem, affecting not only his school performance but also his mental health. One day, out of sheer desperation, he even attempted to end his life.
Safe At Last
By the age of 13, Wairegi’s mother, Salome, recognised the toll the abuse was taking on her son and sought help from SOS Children’s Villages. There, Wairegi met Josephine Rombo, a community development worker and trained counsellor. Their conversations became a lifeline for Wairegi, helping him navigate through the turbulent emotions of his past.
Violence Against Children
Regrettably, Wairegi’s story is not unique. The 2019 Violence against Children Survey in Kenya reveals a startling prevalence of childhood violence, mostly perpetrated by parents or caregivers. Internationally, the figures are just as alarming. The World Health Organization’s 2020 data reveals that an estimated 1 billion children experienced some form of violence. Such experiences can profoundly impact a child’s mental well-being and future prospects.
Globally, 1 in 10 children risk growing up alone due to abuse, neglect or abandonment. We are there for the vulnerable children all around the world.
Healing, Hope, and a New Horizon
With consistent counselling and educational support from SOS Children’s Villages, Wairegi is now pursuing a diploma in information and technology. He is still working through his trauma but remains resolutely optimistic about the future.
“In time, when I have fully healed, I will have much to offer those around me,” says Wairegi. “I owe so much to those who listened, supported, and believed in me.”
